Thursday, June 26, 2008

6-25-08

Hey Dad, Family, and whoever else reads-
Well here is my first real email from Cambodia. And the first thing I have to say about that is.. . . it's so blasted hot I think I'm gonna die!!! oh my goodness the humidity combined with the unbelievable scorching hot temperatures is deadly. Well my first area is the city of Battambang, it's Cambodia's third largest city, which isn't saying much but yeah. Virtually everyone here drivesa little moto scooter kinda like vespas. They are all over the place here. I wish the missionaries were allowed to have some because we ride our bikes anywhere from 14-20 miles a day and it's pretty crazy. When we are teaching, both of us look like we just walked through a water-fall. The people here are so so so so so poor. It makes you wanna cry when you see the way they live. I've seen some of the most poor circumstances I think you can possibly imagine. It's actually really tough. The Mission is physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually draining. My first day of proselyting was one of the most difficult experiences I've had in my life. We teach a lot of investigators and inactive members of the church. It's pretty difficult in Cambodia with the Buddhist culture, which is basically a belief of complacency and everything is ok if you don't kill, or steal, and etc. People here have very poor education and they need things to be explained very very simply. Teaching lessons is quite the experience too, we usually teach the people in their homes and we sit indian style" around on a surface made of bamboo, my feet are killing me but i'm starting to develop calicuses. I've almost come to accept that I will never feel comfortable as far as "ac" and "Being wet" goes. But all is well in Cambodia, I still don't quite have the language but it's coming along. I have a great companion, who has been a great source of help and strength. His name is Elder Douglas, and he's from Georgia. He actually finishes up his mission in 5 weeks and his parents are coming to pick him up, so I think that it shouldn't be a problem for Mom and Dad to come when I'm finished. Oh one really scary thing that Mom probably won't like is that there are bugs everywhere. Because it's so tropical and humid and wet, bugs flourish here. We have geckos and ants in every building, yes, even our house. The geckos just kinda chill on the walls and every once in a while make a "cricket" like sound. It's actually pretty funny. All the kids and people in Cambodia are so nice. Alot of the time when we are riding around, we'll have a group of people yell, "HELLO" because everyone here wants to learn english and things it's hilarious that the american missionaries can speak Cambodian. Speaking of which, twice a week for an hour, we teach an english class for anyone who would like to come to the church. We are teaching the advanced class today and it's very very fun. During sacrament meeting, wow! it's absolutely crazy! I've meet more crazy people in Cambodia in the short space of a week than I ever have in my entire life. Our Branch President always says crazy statements that don't make sense in either english or cambodian and none one quite understands what he's saying. Oh I have a pretty hilarious story to tell you. On my second day here, my trainer prep'd me for the lessons we'd be teaching. He told me that we were going to teach an investigator by the name of "Phiap" and that was reading his scriptures, coming to church every week, and praying everyday, but that he was having some trouble with alcohol. Well anyways, we biked i think like 5 miles to this guys home and we sit down and we start teaching him. And we start teaching about the word of wisdom and Phiap starts saying that he wants to get baptized but really feels like he can't stop drinking... so we start teaching that if he tries and prays and goes to church he'd be helped, and when we tried to commit him to stop drinking altogether, he said, "okay, I'll stop drinking if you guys join me for one last drink." And then he pulled out three glass beer bottles from his little cooler and he opened them and set them in front of us. And he said again, "have one last drink with me and I'll stop and be baptized." and I'm like I'm sorry we can't it's against the word of wisdom and i've promised to never drink that. And my companion is saying the same thing. And this goes on for another 3 or 4 minutes until my companion says, "okay, you promise that you will never drink again if we do?" and Phiap says, "Yes yes, I promise I promise." And my companion totally starting drinking it! I am like. . . what are you doing!!! and he just looked and me and said, "Hey, it'll help him get baptized, he needs to get baptized, don't you wanna help him?" I'm like, yeah I wanna help him but what the heck are you doing? and I'm thinking in my head, "oh my gosh, I have to call President, my companion's going home, what am I going to do?" And all this while, Phiap is saying to me, why won't you drink with me? If you don't drink with me you don't love me. And i'm like Phiap, I can't drink it. And finally he said, "okay, just take a very very small drink and it'll be enough for me." And I'm like, I can't Phiap! I'm sorry. and He kept on saying stuff like "Oh you don't love me, you don't wanna help me, I want to get baptized but you won't help me, etc." and finally he says, "ok, just take your finger and dip it in the beer and that will be enough" and I'm getting really frustrated here, because his whole family is getting in on this saying that I'm not helping their dad and going off about how much they wish their dad to stop drinking. However, I remained strong and kept my cool. And after like 20 mins of this my companion looks at me and takes a cup and poors out the bottle and it's just sprite! I was sooooooo mad!!!!!! I was about to kill him!!!! Everyone was laughing uproariously, it was quite the scene. Anyways that's my funny story for this email, one which I will not soon forget. So anyways, All is well and sorry the beginning of this email seemed like a downer, but everything is great here, and the Lord truly blesses and watches over his missionaries. I've felt so much comfort and peace as I've been adjusting to this very very very very different environment and way of life. All the missionaries tell me that the first 3 weeks are pretty tough, but that after that it's all great and very fast paced. My companion tells me everyday that he can't believe he's going home. he keeps telling me that he was in my place yesterday. Well I'd like to leave you with this testimony:
God lives, and He loves His children, every single one of them. And He is very mindful of the "war-torn" people of Cambodia, and He is pouring out His spirit among them and is setting at hand the way for peace, joy, and comfort in their lives. I know I am a part of that great reaching out to offer His love. I'm enjoying my time here in Cambodia and can't wait to hear from you again!
Love, Elder Ormsby

June 18, 2008 Cambodia!!

Hello Everyone!
Well I've made it. I'm sending you this email from the mission home in Phnom Penh. We just had lunch and it's so hot here. I'm not joking we are always wet here and will be wet for the next two years. But I am absolutely loving it here. Our mission president is a great guy and I'm so excited to start working. I'm not exactly sure what we are doing for the rest of today, but it sounds like tomorrow we are going to start working right off the bat so that will be the beginning of my proselyting. Anyways, My P-day is on Wednesday, so I guess the earliest you can expect emails and such will be on Tuesday night Utah time. Sorry can't talk more but I'll talk to you later!
-Elder Ormsby

Best way to write is www.dearelder.com and use the free pouch system. Its fairly quick and reliable. Elder Ormsby, Phnom Penh, Cambodia

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Danny's ninth e-mail

Well everyone, this is officially my last email during my stay at the MTC, not because I don't like to send emails, but because I'm heading out to Cambodia. I'm pretty much going to die. We spend about 16 and 1/2 hours in the air over the pacific. . . . it's like driving from Utah to California and half way back non stop, and there's no stopping for gas or a break. Well. . . .I'm not exactly sure what to write. But I did hear some information. I'll arrive in Cambodia on thursday their time and will spend the day with the mission president and then spend the night there, before getting my new companion and getting to work! I'm so excited!!!! So the next 40 hours or so of my life will be spent at the airport or on a plane.. . .the perfect way to start the proselyting. But anyways, have a great day, and I'll let you know what Cambodia is like as soon as I get there. :) -Love, Elder Ormsby

Danny's eighth e-mail

Hello Everyone!
Well this is officially the beginning of my last week at the MTC and I now have my flight plans for Cambodia. Here's the deal:
Detla air Lines: flight 1133 I leave 9:23 PM 17th June I Arrive at LAX 10:34 PM Then I leave from LAX 1:30 AM 18th of June (EVA airways flight:15) and Fly to . . . . Taipe Taiwan and Arrive 6:20 AM on June 19th then I wait another 3 hours and fly to Phnom Penh at 9:10 AM (EVA 265) and Arrive 11:35 AM June 19th in Cambodia! Hurray. . . . I'm pretty much going on the plane ride across the world. . . Lindberg's got nothing on me. . . ok well he may have gone a little further but he was the pilot so it doesn't count. I am so excited and can't wait to actually get out and get my new comp/trainer in the field. The first thing we do is eat dinner and get my bike. Then it's off to the races. It's so strange to think I've been her over 2 months. .. . I'll finish this email in a little bit.


Hey. . . sorry about the abrupt end to the first half of my email. I just had to go and get my depature haircut. So. . . what's new with me? I don't think anything. I'm still working on the language and ever trying to be ready for the Cambodian People. We'll see how that turns out next week. Oh by the way, if anyone would desire to write me. . . I would strongly suggest using the "DEAR ELDER" website and write using that method. Because my mission uses the pouch system. The address is : Elder Ormsby
Cambodia Phnom Penh Mission
POB 30150
Salt Lake City UT 84130-0150
USA
That's the best way to get a hold of me. Well let me see if i can write something interesting for a change. Oh, well one of the goals my Zone had was to be friend the person sitting next to us on the plane and to share a pass-a-long card with them or briefly see if they are interested in our message. However, my companion and I will have 3 different flights and one of them is like. . . . 15 hours long. the longest of the others is one flight and 3 1/2 hours long. So I'm a little scared about that, but once I start just talking to them . . . I'm sure it it'll be fine. I guess I'll have plenty of time to study. Well the soaking fingers in the vinegar continues, but they are almost completely healed. Oh. . . and the cambodian people will most likely refer to me as Elde Awhms Bei. . .which literally means Elder "Uncle Cabbage" which i think is a pretty sweet name. Not really fiercesome or anything but cool all the same. Well I'd just like to end by telling you I'm still having the time of my life and can't wait to share this message with the world. The Gospel is true and Christ is our Savior. I love you all and wish to hear from you soon!
-Elder Ormsby

Danny's seventh e-mail

Hello everyone out amongst Babylon. It's great to hear from you as always and I appreciate your thoughts and prayers. This has once again been a very fast week and I only have one more week before I leave for Cambodia. It's really very very very exciting. My teachers has told us that his flight though was around 30 hours or so. Wow, I think I might die on that plane. 30 hours is an eternity on a plane and I don't know what I'm going to do. Well it's official now, I no longer am speaking english. I still can't read very fast but it's coming. As far as my fingers are going they are finally finally finally beginning to heal. And for good. Last week I went and saw the dermatologist again and he had me soak my fingers in vinegar 3 times a day for a week. I'm not going to lie, every time I did it. . . .I felt like I was purposefully setting my fingers on fire. It hurt so bad. I was tough though, and to everyone else, it seemed as if I had drifted into paradise. (while soaking them).
Something worth mentioning is that Sister Dibb. (President Monson's daughter) came and spoke to all the missionaries. She was wonderful, her whole talk was about her experiences with her father. Remarkably President Monson's family sounds strangely simliar to my own family. He had a large family and they had family gatherings and he brought his dates to the family activities to I guess get their opinions and such. He's very much like Randy Turner from what she said.
Well. . . I'm just sitting here. . . waiting for my clothes to dry for the second time. I'm very happy and am so blessed to be able to come and serve the Lord. I truly have felt His influence so much stronger than I've ever felt before. He's carried me a long way, over compensating my efforts tenfold upon tenfold. I love this work (and believe me, it's work.) One thing we were able to watch was Elder Holland's talk on my Missionary Work is so hard and why living the gospel is hard. He said the reason is because "Salvation is not a cheap experience. It never was and it never has been and it never will be. Our salvation required the best blood. If you ever wonder sometimes in life (missionary work) about why things are hard, or if there isn't an easier way, don't forget that you aren't the first to ask that same question. Christ, God Himself, fell on His Face and asked that same question, 'if this cup can pass from me, let it pass." I can tell you this. I absolutely believe that. I know this is the truth and the reason why life is hard is because Salvation isn't cheap, it required the ultimate sacrifice, and if we have to take a step or two towards calvary, spend a minute or two in Gethsemane, be grateful. Because the price has been paid.
Well I guess that's my inspirational thought for the week.
I love you all and hope to hear from you soon!
-Elder Ormsby

Danny's sixth e-mail

Hello to everyone and family,
Well I'm sure you're probably getting really bored of this, but this was yet another great week at the MTC. We had President Monson, Elder Holland, and Elder Eyring come and speak to us. . . . ok, well not really but it could happen. Well, our group of four Cambodian Elders are moving on to solely speaking Cambodian 24 hours/5 days a week. It's getting pretty intense, I get my flight plans to Cambodia in about 9 days or so . . . I'm so excited! I'm still working hard on trying to read the Cambodian script. . . . and memorizing as much of their vocabulary as I can. It's pretty tought though, their language is . . . difficult, but I have no doubts that I will be able to be fluent when I'm needed. Ok, does anyone know what is going on with the weather here? The Missionaries are not informed on any weather information and so we walk outside and it can be eighty degrees one day and then the next it can be freezing and raining. Just a funny thing. Well I'm now making another trip to the dermatologist to take a look at my infected fingers. . . I know it's pretty nasty. They constantly weep and bleed. It's funny. . .I've been to 3 different doctors and they've all tried different things and none of them really work. But this time. . .I think the doctors pulling out the big guns. . . Hopefully some needles and a scaple or two. In my study of the scriptures I've been trying to study more than ever about the Atonement of Jesus Christ. I've come to see now that all miracles in our lives are brought about through the Atonement of Christ. I've also seen from those I speak to on the Phone at the Referal center, feel like God doesn't love them, because so many bad things have happened to them. It's so wonderful to know the truth and be able to explain that yes, everyone has difficult things in their life, but the Atonement is there. Often people feel like Christ's Atonement isn't helping them and that they are alone. However, in order to feel of its healing and comforting power we must obey His commandments and have faith.
I'm so happy to be here. And I love being a missionary. I love you all and hope to hear from you soon! This Church is true. By Reading and applying the teachings of the Book of Mormon a man will get nearer to God than by any other book.
Love, Elder Ormsby

Danny's fifth e-mail

Hey Everyone,
It's great to here from you as always at the MTC. This week seems like it's only been a few days long. It's flown by. We have been working so hard to learn this language. Our class is steadily progressing in the language and we love it. Let's see . . . what happened this week? Oh, well I learned almost a hundred new words in cambodian over 5 days and it was pretty intense. It's different than English, considering that english has handfuls of verbs and a ton of nouns, where as Cambodian is the exact opposite. So few nouns and a whole lot of verbs. In one of my dictionaries, there are nearly 20 different words for carry. To carry a child on one's hip, shoulder, arms,etc. So it's nuts. Oh and everyone cambodia refers to each other as family. If I were to walk up to an elderly man in cambodia, I would say, Hello Grandpa. After the greeting they will then tell you there name. But it's the same for an elderly woman: Grandma. It's really funny. I also learned of another painful part of the culture that I'm going to have to adjust to. If i walk up to a man sitting in a chair in front of his home, I have to walk up and squat (both feet exactly together and squatting as low as I can with my knees touching together with my arms over my knees) and i'm supposed to just sit there like that until either he gets up or we finish talk/teaching and leave. I can't do that know and I'm in the MTC, so i've been working a lot on my stretching. It's pretty tough, but that's the way it goes. I've probably already told you some of that, but I can't remember what i've said, time and events get so mixed up with all ther other things i've done here. Well, I officially have only 4 weeks left in the MTC. I only get to send 3 more emails from here, and then it's off to Cambodia. I can hardly wait, but I do love it here. The only depressing thing is when the english Elders come and go in 3 weeks. And as of now, i've seen 10 English groups come in and leave our Zone, it's funny because most complain about how long they have to be here and such. It's really funny But Anyways, I can tell you only this: I love it here, the Church is True, Christ lives, President Monson is His Prophet, Joseph Smith is the Prophet of the Restoration, and I am about to go to the front lines in the Greatest Work the World has ever known. I love you all and hope to hear from you soon! God Bless.
Love, Elder Ormsby

Danny's fourth e-mail

Hey Everyone,
Sorry I didn't get on earlier, but the MTC has received a huge flow of new English elders ever since school got out and now it's pretty tough to get your time in on your email. But I'm here and all is well. I've developed some pictures and will be sending them off tommorrow morning.
Well. . . what are some highlights from my week? Well as usual I have been working night and day to try and learn the language. I finally am starting to feel comfortable reading. . . .well sort of. I can read an average sized verse in 3-4 minutes. A huge improvement from the 45 minutes it took to read verses 16 and 17 of JSH. But the Lord I see now more than ever that all things denote that there is a God and that His blessings and love are manifested in everything the missionaries do. That is our purupose to bring souls to Christ as kindly and boldy as we can. I am absolutely loving it here. One thing that's absolutely incredible that happened was President Monson visited campus and I and a few others got to shake his hand and talk with him for about twenty minutes. Ok, maybe that didn't really happen, but it's a fun thought. But it doesn't matter, I don't have to meet him to know he's a prophet.
Oh, this week in the Teaching Resource Center, we had to speak with a real cambodian for an hour and no english was allowed, it was pretty intense, my companion and I were able to do every task including the lesson and more. I felt so much aide from the Lord.
Well I think i've had every meal here at least twice and it's. . . .pretty good. We'll see what happens 5 weeks from now, wow! It's going by so fast, I've only got five weeks left and then it's off to Cambodia! Oh, one interesting thing I learned about Cambodia, is that the government there has made it illegal to knock on people's doors, don't ask me why, it's just the way it is. So my teacher, Brother Wright, told us that you just. . .walk in or yell until someone comes out of the house. One interesting I learned is that people there are very very very affectionate with each other. Well at least the men are with the men, and the women with the women. PDA is absolutely non-existent. Our teacher said one time in Church he was sitting next to a man who played around with his ear the whole meeting.. . .
I guess my whole idea of personal space and cultural hardwiring is about to change.
As for the rumors that the Cambodian people eat bugs. . . . They do. They eat crickets and spiders and such. They deep fry them. My teacher says they are pretty good, but the spiders are . . . . not very good.
Considering they are tarantulas, harry and legs attached. I don't think i'll bring myself to do that more than once, just for a picture or so. :) That'll be a nice kodak moment. Goodness gracious, every day is so fast paced that I frequently get what happens during the day mixed with different days and times. Every minute of every day is scheduled very very specifically. Oh well I ran into President Acthinson from the Stake presidency. . . that was nice.
Well I love you all and can't wait to hear from you again! The Church is true, the Book of Mormon is true, Joseph Smith was his Prophet, and Christ lives!
Love, Elder Daniel Ormsby

Danny's third e-mail

Hey Everyone,
It's great to have another p-day and I can't believe it's already been another week. It's pretty crazy. Well it's been business as usual, studying, studying, and more studying. We have been working really hard to learn this language and it's coming along. I've had some great experiences though. My companion and I have been tyring to read the script cambodian book of mormon, and we read a verse and a 1/4 of a column in about 40 minutes, which was both really exciting and pretty darn humbling. A few weeks ago we could barely read script in the slightest, and now we are beginning to make some very real progress on reading. we read at about a 2nd or 3rd grade level. . . ok well maybe 1st grade. But we are learnign more and more everyday. One of the sad things about last night was. . . . (anticipation?) . . . . we had our third english group of Elders leave last night. It's a little depressing, and tommorrow, we get another batch to send off. It's actually relatively funny. We get to see the same look on their faces on the first day, the same confusion and you really can feel for them. But within four or five days, you've got the MTC pretty well down. It's kinda funny. . . . the other day when my companion and I were coming to our room, we walked past the bathroom and we heard a screeching yell from the bathroom, as if some sorta mouse was chasing a bunch of girls around an enclosed room. Turns out all the showers simultaneously decided to spurt out its hottest water, to the utter surprise of everyone using them. Well the TRC was great this week! The TRC is where we have volunteers come in and let us teach them, and we had some cambodians come in and we had the opportunity to talk with them in cambodian, needless to say they spoke a mile a minute, but I could actually understand much of what they said. It was great to see how much we've progressed. Well as far as my fingers go, they are almost completely healed, even though they still bleed every time I play basketball. It's kinda funny, but i'm not exactly sure what you guys would be interested in, because everything here is so routine, not that I don't love it, I do, however it doesn't make great for writing material. I am so excited to finally get to the field, even though I still have another 5 weeks or so. The weeks here fly by so fast. This week seemed only a few days long, I guess it's because I am so busy all the time. Well I guess that's all the exciting news from your Cambodian Missionary, but I'd love to hear back from you as always, I love you all and hope you have a wonderful week!
-Elder Ormsby

Danny's Second e-mail

Hello Everyone,
I'm doing great here at the mtc and i've had quite the two weeks! (Sorry for missiong last weeks email.) I'm not sure what to update you on, but our Cambodian district has now officially gone to script cambodian. Isn't this amazing, I've only been here 4 weeks and now I can speak, read, and write in cambodian? Granted, I don't speak it, or read it. . . or write it very well, but I can do it.
I was shocked to hear what happened to Debi, well acutally I wasn't exactly sure what happened for a little while. I got a letter from Dad and it said something like, "oh and I'm sure you've heard about Debi by now, and now that she'll be just fine. I've seen her and it looks like she'll pull through." (ok, maybe I exaggerated about the "I've seen her part") but when I read it, I was like, "What! What's going on, unfortunately I hadn't heard anything, so I thought Debi was near death or something for 3 or so days. But I was deeply sadden and concerned when I learned of her accident. I can totally relate to what Bonnie. . . I mean Sister Blackburn (mission rules) said about all of these things happening in our family. If you guys could just sit in the living room and do nothing for the next two years, so nothing happens to you and you're all there when I get back, it would be great.
Well anyways, we had a great devotional by Elder Lund, who wrote Work and the Glory, Kingdom and Crown, fire and covenant, etc. He spoke about the book of Mormon from a writer's perspective. He's a wonderful speaker and was great to hear some of the wonderful insights into the Book of Mormon.
Well, not much has changed, other than I've been sick the last 5 or so days. Not bad, just the flu. Oh and the two finger infections now... but they are taking care of me here, I've been to see the dermatologist twice as of today, and the Mtc has a whole staff of doctors to help as well. I went in to see the doctor about my fingers and flu like symptoms, and I had my prescription in about 30 mins. So it was great and i'm feeling much better. My fingers aren't feeling quite as good as I am (the ring fingers on both hands are in grown), but today the dermatologist should take care of it.
Well enough about that, I've pretty much gotten used to getting up at 6:15 every morning and being in-bed with the lights out at 10:30. It's actually quite invigorating (hopefully my parents don't remind me of that when I get home, it's not like i'm going to bed that early when I get home. :) ). I really do feel like I get plently of sleep, definitely plently of food and I even have two beds and closets to myself. It's really neat, my companion and I got a room made for 4 people and we will be the only ones staying in the room for the duration of my stay here. Another nice thing is that I get to play basketball everyday for 50 mins. So good exercise. Well I love you all and am anxious to hear from you. I just want to you to know that I know what I am doing is absolutely the best thing I could be doing. There is no better feeling than serving the Lord, and I have felt His love for me, more in my life than at anyother time! I know Jesus is the Christ and the Savior of the World. I know the Book of Mormon is the Word of God, and that a man will get closer to God by abiding by its precepts than by any other book. I Love you all and miss you so much! Have a wonderful week!
-Elder Daniel Ormsby